Congratulations to the two of you and good luck. As I have said before, feel free to ask for advice. I advise reading Tanja's mediating thread, SeaRex's mediating thread and also Erskews recent applications thread. These threads will help in no end to show not only how to deal with situations actions wise, but also a fair few techniques in simple diplomacy. Good luck and if you need anything, give us a shout.